Heartbreak

ALLOW ME TO EXPLAIN A BROKEN HEART
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* A BROKEN HEART is when you actually refuse
to get out of Bed in the morning bcoz your afraid
of the Reality that awaits u...
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* A BROKEN HEART is when you think abt the
Individual that broke ur heart constantly. u
Reminisce the"Good Times"almost as if the"Bad
Times"never existed...
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* A BROKEN HEART is when you are crying urself
to sleep Every Night & yet crying more & more
each Morning...
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* A BROKEN HEART is the unforgettable smell of
his shirt that sits in that empty box: stowed
away...
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* A BROKEN HEART is the cold shattering feeling
u receive whn u hear the syllables of his
Name. ..
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* A BROKEN HEART is glancing at the Pictures of
the two of u & then quickly turning your
attention to something else to avoid ur tears...
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* A BROKEN HEART is re-reading his Ancient
letters&puttingaway the jewelry that he once
bought for u...
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* A BROKEN HEART is secretly wanting to run bck
to him & secretly wanting to just be loved by him
again...
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* A BROKEN HEART is asking desperately for jst
one last chance with the only person responsible
for your loneliness...
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* A BROKEN HEART is pretending to not care
what his frnds are saying about you...
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* A BROKEN HEART is forcing urself to hang up
the phone after you have dialed the 1st three
digits to his Number...
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* A BROKEN HEART is screaming & begging for a
second chance inside...
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* A BROKEN HEART is the Emptiness&heart-
wrenching feeling you encounter when you see
him/her with his new love...
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*A BROKEN HEART is knowing that no matter wht
u do or say to urself, u cn't fool ur heart into
believing dat u will in fact"Be Alright"...
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* A BROKEN HEART is seeing him/her & even
though it may be the hardest thing dat u have
ever had to do, u decide to walk away...
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* A BROKEN HEART is listening to dat one song
dat makes u break dwn ovr& over again...!
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* A BROKEN HEART sometimes means: Not
wanting to go on.

Advice To Single Ladies

LET'S SPEAK TO THE SINGLE LADIES
No man ever wants a 'crazy' wife! It is only guys
who
want a 'crazy' girlfriend, so don't be deceived. A
guy
who wants you to party hard every weekend,
expose
your boobs, wear skimpy clothes,loud make ups
and
get down with 11bottles of beer while he is on
15 will
NEVER marry you! A guy who wants sex
everywhere
with you when he is not yet married to you will
see you
as a whore when the time for marriage
eventually
comes... Have you ever wondered why most of
these
crazy guys go for the 'timid' and 'local' looking
girls
when it comes to marriage but dump the
sexy,sassy
and gorgeous looking ones??? A man wants more
than
beauty for marriage! Those boobs
you are flaunting everywhere will eventually sag
someday so invest in yourself! A man really
wants a
place he can call home, he wants a woman who
is
modest and can take care of his parents, one
with
whom the children can confide in, the one he
can take
major decisions with and tell all his fears. He
wants a
wife,mother and sister all in one... I'm not
saying that
looking good is bad. Infact looking good is good
business, but you have got to look beyond that
and pay
more attention to things that keep a home. If
you truly
want to attract a decent man, please be decent
yourself
and do not let any man use you to pass
time! ...... May
GOD grant you the wisdom to be the woman a
man
truly needs!

LOVE STORY: FINDING TRUE LOVE

I wonder what would have happened to my life if I had not hired her. But that scenario was quite unlikely, given that she had a strong resume, an impressive work experience and the eagerness to question and learn.
But I am jumping the gun here. To give a brief background, I live in Mumbai and work in the financial services industry. I am not being immodest here, but for a person coming from a poor background, I have done exceedingly well in life. I studied hard, worked hard and now have all the creature comforts that anyone can ever want.
I am married (arranged marriage) and have two lovely children. But what is not lovely (and has never been) is my relationship with my wife. We started off on a wrong foot and while things have got better, it is far from ideal. While she is very loving, her temper is terrible and she has extreme mood swings. So from my side, while I like her very much, I was never in love with my wife. But I have never cheated on her, even though I have had women chasing me. At different times, two women were after me. But I am an old school guy who believes in sticking on in the marriage, even though it may not be a good one.
And then this fateful interview happened almost a year and a half back and I hired this girl. In the beginning, my relationship with her was no different than the one I shared with everyone else in my workplace and there was nothing unusual. She was very good at her work like some other high performers and I was impressed with her dedication, commitment and eagerness to take on more responsibility.
But somewhere along this journey, I have fallen in love with this girl. I now understand why people call it the most delightful feeling that is hard to express in words, even though for me, so far, it has been one sided from my side.
Did I express my feelings to her? Yes. There was a brief period where I was not her boss and I took that opportunity to tell her. And the net result of that conversation was that her respect towards me went down a little. She is not interested in me. And I think she is already in a relationship with someone.
So where does it leave me now? I am in love with someone who does not love me back, and am married to someone who I like, but do not love. So in terms of the course of action, at home, I go through the motions without any emotion with my wife and am totally normal in my behaviour with my kids. And at work, by a strange quirk of fate, I am back as her boss again and I remain professional in my interactions with her. But I am impressed with myself – in my interactions with this girl at work, I am totally, supremely professional.
But the day she gets married to the person whom she is in a relationship with, I would definitely be crushed. That day is obviously inevitable and all I can do is steel myself every single day so that on that day of her marriage, the impact on me is not so severe. But that is easier said than done…

HOW TO FIND OUT IF YOUR MATE/LOVER IS CHEATING

How to Find Out if Your MATE / LOVER is Cheating Suspect that your mate is cheating on you? These steps may help you find out for sure!
Look for changes in ... Spending. Often, having a hot romantic affair can greatly change spending habits. For a girlfriend or wife, it may mean less money spent on daily meals, since a boyfriend may be buying lunches frequently, or for a guy, he may be buying flowers or lunches, or even paying for an apartment or motel room.
Behavior. If he/she usually has a set time for getting home from work and all the sudden, there are "after work meetings" or sudden trips to Walmart at odd hours.
Dress, hairstyle, sexual activity (more OR less). These changes could be indicative of trying to attract or please someone new Ordinary things, like lipstick on his collar, or her returning home smelling different Mileage on their vehicle. Have they been doing a lot of unexplained traveling? How very interesting.... Get technical : Put a hidden GPS device on their car.
Install a hidden webcam at home. Buy and use "spy software" to gather evidence against your cheating spouse. Most cheating today involves email or IM communication. Telephone often, just to chat, and listen to background noises . If the significant other is at work, you should be able to associate the background sounds to their job. You may also catch a hint of something in their voice that tells you they are not comfortable talking.
Listen to what their friends say when you are both around them . She/he may be telling you that they are spending time with their friend, then their friend may make a comment about how long it has been since they went out together. Buy her some flowers Not exactly roses, but just flowers in general.
Have them delivered to her at work Make sure that your name is NOT put onto the card, so she doesn't know who it's from. Don't purchase via a credit card; that leaves a trail.
When she comes home, if she still has the flowers and asks you if you sent them to her, she is probably faithful, but if she doesn't say a word, more then likely she's cheating on you. Just ask upfront . If s/he won't tell you use guilt. After a while, s/he will just give up and tell you. Don't be too hard on your mate if s/he tells you yes . Ask her questions like why s/he was cheating. Try to understand him/her.
You may not have been Mr/Mrs. Perfect yourself. If s/he HAS been cheating, you now have something which you can use as leverage . Don't blow it by being physically abusive.
Don't just dump him/her, if otherwise you are happy . You should try to understand her first but if you can't, don't feel bad. Video
TIP Consider whether you really want to know, or not. Perhaps your time and effort would be better spent working on improving your relationship. Being trustworthy and honest is important in a healthy relationship and if they are not being these things but you suspect it, find out so you can get out and find someone who deserves you.

HELLO AM SINGLE AND SEARCHING FOR LOVE!1

Hello, my name is Nomahlubi Dhlula and am single and searching for someone who will love me, if you think you are that person, this is my facebook link , click here. Lets talk and see what will happen.

Tips On Kissing -The Sweetest Kiss

Tips On Kissing -The Sweetest Kiss

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February is the month of Romance, with Valentine's Day right in the middle, and clearly, kissing is the essence of romance.
Hugging mingles joyfully with kissing. Years ago Ann Landers shocked everyone when she reported on a large survey of American women, asked what they would choose if they were offered sex or a cuddle. Millions desperately wanted to cuddle!
Remember that women want to be caressed, hugged and kissed a lot more often than many men believe. Don't neglect the art of making out! In too many long-term relationships, kissing is totally neglected.
Be a good kisser! Soft kissing is lovely, while too much tongue can be a turn-off. A proper kiss should be rife with sensitivity and very playful in its sensuality. The tongue should be operated sparingly but with vigor.
To inspire: "I feel like necking and petting...make your lips soft for me. May we pretend we're teenagers?"
Creative kissing: Kiss the corners of her mouth; kiss her fingers, licking between each finger; kiss her neck, earlobes (biting gently), eyelids, kiss the bottoms of her feet, massaging her feet and ankles and sucking her toes.
Most of us adore being kissed, nibbled, and nuzzled! Be sure and have good breath, be clean, and go slowly. It is a happy day if you can honestly say, "I need to kiss you a lot...I want to kiss you all over. We have so much time...I won't go away. Kissing you like this makes me unbelievably hot...Come here. I want to feel you next to me. You have the best mouth!"
It is true: three out of four women think kissing is more intimate than having sex. Yes, kissing for many women is not foreplay, it's the best sexual play! This is accurate, according to an Internet survey of 100,000 kissers.
Yes, a kiss is lip service to love...because that contraction of the mouth may be due to an enlargement of the heart! DO IT! (And, here's to a most romantic Valentine's Day!).