Dating/Relationship Advice: 50 Sex Tips For Men & Women

This is not just my personal view but also many others who I have interviewed over the past years for my Talk Show


1) #1 reason in most women’s view is ROMANCE… If a guy knows how to be romantic he will be able to sexually lure his lady without too much persistence

2) #1 reason for men we spoke to: Getting their rocks off!


3) Don’t ignore men’s nipples

4) Keep it fresh and alive for both sexes ~ don’t be predictable!

5) Men like women who explore and take initiative

6) Women like massage/candles/soft words and a man who caresses them (no groping, mauling or being constantly aggressive!

7) Men love lingerie and a woman who enjoys wearing it.
They also like it when she decides to forego her underwear when out for the evening. Men find it very sexy when his lady is panty-less out on a date!


8) Booze-less sex is better than a drunken session. The senses are more alive when sober and you actually remember you had sex!

9) Daytime sex is the choice for both genders. Sex after 9pm is too routine & never as arousing ~ Everyone is tired from their busy day.

10) A little naughty talk in the bedroom is alluring for both sexes

11) Phone sex messages (if you call them at the office ensure the speaker phone is off)

12) Always listen to what your partner says they enjoy

13) Pick up on their desires & use it to your advantage.

14) Hot coffee delivered in the morning is like foreplay to a woman.

15) The littlest gestures will increase your odds of better sex or at least getting it once in a while.

16) Try new positions ~ don’t become a creature of habit in the bedroom

17) Wear cologne or body cream lightly & do not forget the deodorant! You may not think you need it but trust me most people do!

18) Learn how to read each other’s feelings

19) Be aware of their body language. Know when something is not right

20) Ask questions! Show interest in their life

21) Ladies: After your man gets home from work, bring him a drink or the remote control for an hour. He needs time to unwind not 50 questions.

22) Men: after your orgasm, sex is NOT over!

23) Scream out during sex once in awhile let the neighbors know you are NOT boring after all.

24) Sex is not just penetration!

25) Don’t ask someone if they would like to have sex! Be creative.

26) Shave! That goes for both sexes ~ Do a little landscaping

27) Complement your partner & make them feel good about themselves, especially their bodies (for women!)

28) Don’t wear flannel pajamas, curlers or eye shades to bed.

29) Shave her legs or paint her toenails once in awhile ~ wax his unibrow or give him a foot massage.

30) Wash his hair or other pampering things Mom used to do

31) Dress sexy for them, even at home

32) Dental hygiene; floss, whiten and freshen breath with scope! Yellow teeth get worse with age, be preventative before it happens.

33) Get rid of granny panties and tighty whities

34) Tell each other what you like and want in bed. Guide each other with your hands. Don’t just lie there like a starfish.

35) Men love women who actually enjoy oral sex & don’t just do it because it is expected. The same goes with oral sex for women. (It makes us more comfortable & relaxed when our man enjoys it.)

36) Think ahead romantically for special occasions

37) Confidence is a turn on

38) Take your time during sex; don’t be in a rush for the finish line

39) Find their erogenous zones and work them, especially if you want them to get in the mood beforehand

40) Don’t assume that one orgasm is all they are good for. (That goes for men too, ladies)

41) Have sex outside the bedroom

42) Make out on the couch like a teenager if you have been together for a while

45) Tell them often that you love them, and want them. Don’t assume they know.

46) Be respectful of each other’s time. Late for a date or dinner will not get you laid

47) Valentine’s Day is a reminder for romance ~ Make any day special for NO reason other than you care

48) Don’t be afraid to be a mush ball occasionally.

49) Have a pet name for each other in the privacy of your bedroom

50) Read or watch something sexy together to spice things up if you feel like your sex life is becoming repetitive. 

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